In the DIY Network series I Hate My Yard, landscape designer Sara Bendrick comes to the rescue of people who love their homes but HATE their yards. A contemporary backyard dining area with black wicker chairs is shown, as seen on DIY Network's I Hate My Yard.My ex husband is near death in hospice care. We were married for 35 years, and divorced because of alcoholism (both of us were drunks). I got sober, he didn’t. We have been divorced for 10 years. Neither of us has remarried. His family hated me, and he hated me as well. But at the end, we both told each other that we still loved each other.